Are Thinking Preferences Making Your Big Decisions?

21 August 2019 at 04:16 by Sarah Thurber

 

 


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Deciding on a “dream home” is a very different process, depending on whether you are a Clarifier, Ideator, Developer or Implementer.

Are Thinking Preferences Making Your Big Decisions?

by Sarah Thurber“You would make a terrible realtor,” my teenage daughter Becca said to me as we were driving to breakfast one Saturday morning.

“Really? Why do you say that?” I asked.

“Because you always like the fixer-upper houses. You walk into a house that’s a total wreck and say, ‘This is a real diamond in the rough!’”

“That’s right!” I said. “Those are the houses that require the most imagination. Those are the most fun, and if you play it right, they’re often the best value.”

“But those are not the houses most people want to buy,” she said.

I thought for a moment. “Wow. I guess you’re right. I really would make a terrible realtor.”

We laughed. “Mom, you’re such an Ideator, Implementer!” It’s true, in FourSight terms, I have a high preference for both ideation and implementation, which makes a house that’s a real fixer-upper incredibly appealing to me. It calls on all the things that I naturally bring to a problem:  Imagination. Nerve. Guts. Vision. Lots of hard work. It’s me at my best.

But me at my best is not other people at their best. When our FourSight colleague Russ Schoen and his wife were expecting their second child, I tagged along on their house hunting adventure. I kept raving about the fixer-uppers. Honestly, I was kind of bored by the houses that were move-in ready. Where’s the fun in that? All you do is move in.

My daughter helped me see it through another lens. I was only getting excited about the houses that were exciting to me. Without putting my thinking preferences in check, I would be a good realtor only for people who shared my cognitive profile and like to engage in the same types of challenges that I do.

FourSight helped surface why that was happening and reminded me that, regardless of the job I do, when I’m helping other people make decisions, I need to make sure I’m helping them in a way that suits their needs, not just in a way that suits mine.

When you are on the verge of making a big decision, keep your FourSight preference in mind, and ask yourself…

Clarifiers: It meets my requirements, but does it make my heart sing?
Ideators: It strikes my fancy, but does it meet my requirements?
Developers: It’s the optimal choice among my options, but is it the right choice?
Implementers: I could make this deal happen, but have I thought it through?

Sarah Thurber is Managing Partner at FourSight, author of The Secret of the Highly Creative Thinker and thankfully, not a realtor. 

Stories make it stick.

“The first time I deliberately introduced FourSight with a story, six people in the audience hired me to deliver FourSight to their teams.” — Sarah Thurber Join us for a story swap on Wed. Sept 12 at 1pm CST. This free 1-hour FourSight U webinar, open only to certified facilitators, will help you deliver more memorable FourSight sessions using short, true and highly impactful FourSight stories. Lead by Russ Schoen and Sarah Thurber. Come with a  story of FourSight in action. Leave with at least 4 new stories to tell.

Certified facilitators, look for an invitation in your email next week. 

Honoring a great creativity scholar

This month, FourSight author, Dr. Gerard Puccio, spoke at Harvard as part of a select panel of creativity researchers, celebrating the retirement of renowned creativity researcher, Dr. Teresa Amabile, Harvard Business School professor and author of The Progress Principle.Joining Puccio on the panel were other creativity scholars, Paul Paulus and Mark Runco, all discussing the current state of creativity processes. Other eminent creativity scholars honoring Amabile for her outstanding contributions included Michael Mumford, Jennifer Mueller, Michael Pratt, Beth Hennessey and Dean Simonton.

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